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Monday, January 31, 2011

no. 063 [the funeral...]



















"The Funeral" by Band Of Horses

I have only begun to think about what this place would be like. What it would be like to face the end, to face the death of the single most important thing in my life. People don't normally go into things, start things, and think about the end, at least not in a negative light. I'm too optimistic to have ever put myself in this place, or to have ever imagined what it would be like. What makes it even harder to comprehend are the subtle messages in the sky that tell me that there might still be hope.

I think we try to prepare for the worst as best we can. And when it finally hits no amount of preparing will have us ready for it. You can think about it all you want, but eventually it will happen, because as Buddha once said, "all conditioned things are impermanent."

It's so unclear whether this may be the end or some sort of transition. I've been here before, but not quite like this, this is new and terrifying, yet exciting. Perhaps this is a sign, a sign of much needed change; a fork in the road, a new direction. And whatever the outcome will be, good or bad, I will be prepared for the best, and will do my best to be prepared for the worst.

It's human nature to wish for things to happen the way you'd like them to. It's an instinctual selfishness that persists, especially when it involves something, or someone that you want. The best way to get around this is to be realistic, and to be ready.

So I'll sit or stand at the back of the crowd, either at a chapel or at a burial site, prepared to object or to pay my respects. Perhaps one day I'll be front and center, but not alone. But any occasion I'll be ready, come what may. Whether this is the end, or just the beginning. The death of what we were, are, or what we may never become; I'll be ready for the funeral.

Saturday, January 29, 2011

no. 062 [diary...]

















"Diary" by Wale (Feat. Marsha Ambrosius)

I feel a little apprehensive writing this. I think that if I had written this a while ago that it would have been a lot more emotional and a lot more impactful (is that even a word?). But either way, here it goes.

I've always felt like I was being thrown challenge after challenge in a certain relationship. I understand her past to the point that I have been allowed to, to the knowledge of said past that has been made known and available to me. And I believe that we should focus our minds on the present, yet her past has haunted not only her, but me as well. It's hard, because all I wanted to be was the one that made her forget, that wrote a new chapter, that in essence (as she worded) could be the one to save her. "Every problem that you ever had with another man I gotta face." And yet nothing I did was ever good enough to overcome these hurdles, or to keep you here safe with me.

Lord knows I tried, but maybe I didn't try hard enough, considering the circumstances. All I wanted was to be that man in her life, to be the one to make her happy. "Queen you deserve the title, but she rejects what I give, while nurses the wounds by them."

What had happened before continued to dictate what was yet to happen. "I'm just trying to be the one that'll never run, but you run away from me." It's a vicious cycle fueled by our love; yet there is this wall neither of us could get over.

I just don't get it. I have never been able to comprehend how love couldn't be enough. I mean, I get the whole long distance thing, and needing that physicality, and whatnot, but how can love not be enough when we are together? Is it her past that haunts this, or is it really something more?

I feel like just another chapter. Another boy that has entered her life, and didn't amount to anything other than another step back, another reason for things not to work between her and anyone, even if it isn't me. But it's not like I want things to work for her and someone else right now because I don't know how to move on, I can't let go of the sense that I was the best thing to happen to her; as egotistical as it may seem.

Maybe if I had tried harder it might have lasted a little longer. But as she said, she would have run away eventually. But still, I wonder; how much longer must this last? "All I want to be is relevant." But maybe it's really over, and I've become just another boy to break her heart, to let her down. "Just tell me that I ever meant anything, or that you could see me and you in another light."

All I wanted was a fair chance, and yes, I don't believe that I've ever been given that when it comes to her. And I'm not sure I ever will. But I can hope. Hopefully it's not too late and I haven't become one of those boys, one of those poor excuses, another life sentence for an unsuspecting soul, another sad song with nothing to say, another line, another chapter. "No key for release, no reason to be around, her mind's in the clouds, she writes it all down, in her diary..."

Thursday, January 27, 2011

My Secret Public Journal, Entry #010: Lost

So, at the suggestion of a friend/classmate I decided to make these journal-esk writings that don't sum up into a central theme laced with ambiguity and a cheesy song playing in the background. Instead I'll just free-write about whatever strikes me...complete with a little lacing of ambiguity...and a cheesy song playing in the background. I call it My Secret Public Journal.

Love & Waffles,
Ant

ps: don't sue me Mike Birbiglia



"Woods" by Bon Iver

I thought running a million miles away would help. I thought that running away from this would be the solution. I thought putting the blame on you would be enough to keep me from being crushed. Even as fast as I could run it wasn't enough to escape it, because the issue lies within.

My heart is broken, ripped in two, torn between what I want and what is right. I hate feeling powerless over all of this. And I hate how every writing seems to be a writing to you. Another letter I'm too afraid to send, so I post it here, for all to see.

I've run so far that I don't even know where I am anymore. A few nights ago I vowed that I would run, that things would change. I ran a million miles away from you, only to find myself caught up by these problems. I don't have the energy to keep running or to let go, nor do I want to do either or. I'm caught in a horrible catch 22. But neither outcome looks like it'll bring any happiness.

I feel like a broken record. Like all these things have been said before, over and over, just set to a different tune. A playlist of love songs that all say the same thing. Once again, every line is about who I don't want to write about anymore. I do want to write about you, about us, just not in this context.

I have found myself lost in the woods, brought here by my own two feet, running, running, running. It's time to quit running and face these issues. I am just as tired of this cycle as you are. But don't you think our love is worth one more try? Because I very much do.

I would try and try again, but I can't do it now. I won't dare attempt it right now, not with things being the way they are, between us, and for us as individuals. I'm...we're lost in the world. How can we find the love in each other when we haven't found the love in ourselves? It's time we found ourselves. And I guarantee you that when I do, I'll be there, looking for you. You may be lost in the world, but you're not alone.

Monday, January 24, 2011

no. 061 [lost in the world...]














"Lost In The World/Who Will Survive In America" by Kanye West (Feat. Bon Iver)

I feel bad. No. I feel horrible. I hate that I'm here. At this crossroads. My head; constantly telling my good intentions "no." My heart; not wanting to let go. Common sense; beating the holy hell out of me. Logic; my enemy. And here I am; in too fucking deep for my own fucking good. Broken and cynical. everything I thought...wrong. Yet everything I felt...so right. Everything I feel...cold; unreal. Everything I want...close to impossible. Yet...I sit...hoping...waiting...wishing...even though I said I wouldn't. I wear a mask, so colorfully illustrated, fighting my own private war. I pay for crimes I didn't commit, but what for? I lost everything...but one thing...so I write...

I'm lost in the world, I'm down on my mind
I'm building a city, and I'm down for the night...

The optimism; I hold dear. Why? Because it's all I have left. That's why. Why the fuck not hold onto it? Because it's the only thing that brings me comfort, the only thing that really brings me any kind of feelings of happiness, joy, or switch those around if you want it to not sound so dissonant. I don't care. Everything is and is not already. Why should order matter? Like organized chaos; a bullet through a flock of doves. What chance does it give me? Because it's all contradictions now. Love is, but isn't big enough. Because...

You're my devil, you're my angel.
You're my heaven, you're my hell.
You're my now, you're my forever.
You're my freedom, you're my jail.
You're my lies, you're my truth.
You're my war, you're my truce.
You're my questions, you're my proof.
You're my stress, & you're my masseuse...

Love and hate seem much like twins now. Yet I can't bring myself to say one of them. If you don't know which then flip a coin and take your pick. For once I feel the sting of anguish, the horrible aftertaste of despair. There are no characters in this play, no RED & BLUE...it's just me and you. I fought my war, now it's your turn. You know me, I'm too weak to let go, yet you stick around. Walk away if we will never be, or suck it up and never say never. If this is worth it act like it, because I'm fucking tired of tip toeing around it. I'm lost. Come find me...but first find yourself.

No, I don't want to see another writing; the pessimistic side of you. Another half baked idea of pushing me away, because I'm still here. You can have your cake and eat it too, but you must preheat the oven first. Talk it over, reach out. I know, hypocritical it seems for me to put you on blast, but it seems to be the only way to reach you. Paper planes I've thrown fly over those walls you've erected. If I could have I would have, knocked them down that is.

So I call for it, one last time. If you say never then so be it. Walk away, leave me be, and quit fucking this up. But if not, if that voice catches your ear, saying, screaming, "don't let me go," then let me know. Otherwise you'll have to do me the favor. Love is supposed to be the idea of acceptance; of seeing a person for who they really are, flaws and all, and still sticking around. I guess I'm too fucking in love with you. A broken record train-wreck is what I've become...lived long enough to see myself become a villain. Superman is dead. And all that's left is me...is you...both...

LOST IN THE WORLD

Friday, January 21, 2011

The Blame Game (A Prequel)

I decided after writing the actual blog to this post that this should see the light of day. Not to be negative, but to show the frustration I was feeling at the time of this writing in written word. I stand behind what I wrote, but not the manner at which it may sound. Take it for what it's worth. There are no hidden messages, no ill thoughts, or slanderous messages. Take MY words for what they are worth, and THEIR words as part of a song. That's all I want to say about this.


"Blame Game" by Kanye West (Feat. John Legend)

Let's play the blame game, I love you, more. 
Let's play the blame game for sure. 
Let's call out names, names, I hate you, more. 
Let's call out names, names, for sure. 
I'll call you bitch for sure... 
As a last resort, and my first resort. 
You call me motherfucker forlorn. 
At the end of it you know we both were wrong. 
But I love to play the blame game, I love you, more.
Let's play the blame game for sure. 
Let's call out names, names, I hate you, more. 
Let's call out names, names, for sure. 
On a bathroom wall I wrote "I'd rather argue with you than to be with someone else" (else, else, else).
I took a piss and dismiss it like 'fuck it' and I went and found somebody else. 
Fuck arguing and harvesting the feelings, yo I'd rather be by my fucking self 
Till about 2 a.m. and I call back and I hang up and start to blame myself...
Somebody help. 
Let's play the blame game, I love you, more 
Let's play the blame game for sure. 
Let's call her names, names, I hate you, more.
Let's call her names, names, for sure. 
You weren't perfect but you made life worth it. 
Stick around, some real feelings might surface. 
I had a dream last night that the world was endin' 
while you just sat there in your world of make believe pretendin' 
that all is fine, our love it shines, your heart is mine 
Time tock-tickin' away every second you livin' that lie. 
Every line is about who I don't want to write about anymore, 
but let's take a second to make sure that we settle the score.
I love you. I hate you. I can't be without you. 
I want you. I need you. But at the same time I doubt you.
My heart you may have, but my trust is on your wish list. 
Why is it the only way I can express my angst is with my fists?
So I refocus, relax, take a breath and unclench, 
put a pen in my hand as I walk away from that bench. 
Written word, rhymin', my new escape. 
But to get away from you, it might just be too late. 
So I play the asshole and tell you to runaway.
Perhaps I should make a toast, take a drink, and do the same. 
Regret you, forget you, cut you out of my life. 
With the sharp words I scribble on paper, my tongue is a knife. 
So don't kiss me goodbye 'cause I may just end your life 
by slitting a throat, and putting an end to that beautiful lie. 
But on the other side, flipped like a coin, you can't help how you're feelin'. 
But how could I go from being a hero to becoming the villain?
Don't get it twisted, once upon a time I loved you dearly,
but with RED in my eyes I think I'm finally seeing clearly. 
We're just friends, fallin', all in, the end. 
Breaking news, CNN, sorry to tell you but Superman is dead. 
Let's play the blame game, I love you, more 
Let's play the blame game for sure. 
Things used to be; now they not. 
Anything but us is who we are. 
Disguising ourselves as secret lovers, 
We've become public enemies. 
We walk away like strangers in the street; 
Gone for eternity, 
We erased one another. 
So far from where we came, with so much of everything, how do we leave with nothing? 
Lack of visual empathy equates the meaning of L-O-V-E. 
Hatred and attitude tear us entirely. 
Let's play the blame game, I love you, more. 
Let's play the blame game for sure. 
Let's call out names, names, I hate you, more. 
Let's call out names, names, for sure. 
I can't love you this much, I can't love you this much. 
I can't love you this much, I can't love you this much. 
No, I can't love you this much 
I can't love you this much 
And I know that you are somewhere doing your thing, 
And when the phone called it just ring and ring. 
You ain't pickin' up but your phone accidentally called me back, 
And I heard the whole thing. 
I heard the whole thing, the whole thing, the whole thing...

Saturday, January 15, 2011

Confession #008

I've named inanimate objects.

iPod = 9
Old Car = Buttercup
Truck = Cooper
Blue Jazz Bass = Jazzy

Friday, January 14, 2011

no. 060 [runaway, pt.2...]

"Runaway" by Kanye West (Feat. Pusha T)

Here I stand at a crossroads. One path leading to hope, the other quite possibly to realism. But which to choose? My head says one way, but my heart says the other. One seems doable, while the other is just too hard. Why can't I seem to make this decision? There is no one by my side, no voices to tell me what I should or should not do. All that's left is me, and two paths. One that winds and goes on forever, the other leading into the woods. There is no coin to flip, no sound but the ticking of time, ringing like a single note played over and over in my ear. Can I do this? Do I want to? Am I ready?

Here I stand on the polar opposite of the spectrum. I find myself at the same table, but at the other end. A toast, proposed, but my cup is half empty, or is it half full? A half plate of food I'm not particularly familiar with. May I please be excused?

All this time, tick-tocking away, lifting up the smoke, the truth this time. It's all making sense. It's not my battle, yet I know where I stand. I know where I've been, and will hopefully never be again. But never say never. You can just hope for the best. But will the best be good enough?

I sit, looking at this mad tea party. But this time I won't toast for the same reasons the rest are. Because this time it's not my place, and it's not something I believe in. It's not me.

I know what's in my heart, and I have a pretty good idea of what's in yours. Give me a sign before I run or runaway. This decision doesn't need to be made today. I believe in second chances, compromises, and trying to work this out. I believe in you, in me, in us, in our love. Just say that you do too and I'll run. Don't let me go just yet, not without a fight.

It's not my battle, but I'm in your corner. Just tell me you want me here, or that you need me here. Hell, just tell me anything you can. Tell me what your heart wants, but what your lips are too afraid to say. Don't let me slip through the cracks, not this time.

Let's have a toast, but not for the same reason as last time. Let's switch it up, shake it up, let's tear down the walls and build a new foundation. We have a second chance at something great, but will we take it?

I'm too much of a romantic to let our past ruin this. I can't sit by and watch everything tear you apart. I can help if you let me, let me in, help me to understand. Let's be honest for once in our lives. It hurts, it really does, but that's love. If nothing else it'll hurt like crazy, but it will, beyond a shadow of a doubt, be entirely worth it.

Grab my hand, and let's leave this world behind. Let's make a new path, our own, like it was before, but entirely different. This time let's make honesty the foundation, and base it somewhere in reality. Let's try and tell what our hearts have always wanted to say. Let's write this fairytale ending. Let's break the rules and make our own. Let's give into the impulses, let's give into love. Hell, for once in our lives let's live. I'll run, but I'd much rather have you by my side.

Let's have a toast for the assholes, for the douchebags, for the mistakes we've made, and for the people we have become because of them. Let's have a toast to what we're yet to discover, for the people we have yet to become, to what we have yet to accomplish, and to what we have yet to learn; about life, love, and real happiness.

Don't let me go down this path, or the other one again. Come with me, let's get away, let's...

runaway

My Secret Public Journal, Entry #009: Last Kiss

So, at the suggestion of a friend/classmate I decided to make these journal-esk writings that don't sum up into a central theme laced with ambiguity and a cheesy song playing in the background. Instead I'll just free-write about whatever strikes me...complete with a little lacing of ambiguity...and a cheesy song playing in the background. I call it My Secret Public Journal.

Love & Waffles,
Ant

ps: don't sue me Mike Birbiglia




"Last Kiss" by Taylor Swift

I replay that night over and over. I remember what I was wearing, what you were wearing, how your things were packed into your car. I remember the date, how the neighbor's sprinklers were going off, the smell of wintergreen lifesavers. I remember how you held me, how I kissed your forehead and told you that everything would be alright trying to hold back the tears. I remember how I brought my guitar and you told me to keep it down because the kids were sleeping, or how I couldn't play a damn thing because you made the butterflies in my stomach go crazy. I remember the way I handed you that mixtape, how the moon lit up your eyes, how you smelled, and how I kissed your nose. I remember just about everything from that night, but especially our last kiss.

If I had known it would have been what it is now I would have held on tighter, I would have kissed you longer, I would have looked into your beautiful eyes for just a few more seconds before trying to make sense of all of this.

If I had known, I wouldn't have gone away and driven home that night. I would have been there in the morning, I wouldn't have given up so easily. There are so many things in life we can't take back, that we wish we could, and that will haunt us, quite possibly forever. Don't think for a second that you're alone in this. September 25th, 2009 to me is the night I gave up. That's what it means to me anyway.

But the thing is I wouldn't change a thing. Don't get me wrong, because it still hurts, and it's still very hard to think about. But for a second, there in your arms, everything was perfect. Your moonlit eyes, the way you wore your hair up, sitting there looking beautiful, even in your sweatpants, and that last wintergreen flavored kiss.

I think the only reason I bring it up is so that I can feel something. So that my cold heart can be reminded of how it used to be. The feelings remain the same, it's just that I've bottled it up for so long that I almost forgot.

I'm not 100% sure what my point was anymore. Maybe it's because I'm staring at the possible mortality of all of this in the eye, and I'm not sure I'm strong enough to let this all go. I'm not sure I want to, or that I even can.

My broken heart is healing, but it now aches for a different reason. Because no matter what I do I still smell you on my purple shirt, those songs on your mixtape still bring tears to my eyes, my truck still has that lingering scent of wintergreen, I still can't play that song on my guitar, and I'd still give you the moon. Just say the word and I'll lasso it down.

A sign, that's all I ask. Let me know that you feel the same. Tell me to stay and I will. We can make that night right, or leave it as it is, the night we had our last kiss...

Confession #007

I sing along to
Paramore
in my truck.

Thursday, January 13, 2011

no. 059 [i'll run...]

"I'll Run (Strings Version)" by The Cab

It's such a cliche', the saying that one would do anything for someone; would do anything for love. I thought this to be true for so long, but what happens when what you need to do is something that you just can't?

I'm so stubborn. I am here at a brick wall, knowing in my mind that there may just be no way around this, yet my heart holds hope dear. I can't make this right. I can't change who I am, yet something won't let me give up. My heart refuses to lose this fight.

I stay thick-headed and even thicker-hearted, overlooking everything, hoping that somehow love will find a way. The ice on my heart is slowly melting, and my legs are no longer paralyzed. But tell me, if I run will you be there at the finish line?

I guess no matter what I do I will always have this sense of hope, this sense of faith. I always thought I lacked faith, but now I know I've had it all along, and it's in you. I just can't say never. My heart won't believe it. My faith in you and in our love just won't die. But tell me you have a little faith in me and I'll run.

The paths are laid out, as clear as day. But I don't know which I will choose. Will I run, or will I runaway? Just give me a sign, and I'll stay, I'll try, I'll work it out, I'll run...

My Secret Public Journal, Entry #008: I'm In Here

So, at the suggestion of a friend/classmate I decided to make these journal-esk writings that don't sum up into a central theme laced with ambiguity and a cheesy song playing in the background. Instead I'll just free-write about whatever strikes me...complete with a little lacing of ambiguity...and a cheesy song playing in the background. I call it My Secret Public Journal.

Love & Waffles,
Ant

ps: don't sue me Mike Birbiglia


"I'm In Here (Piano/Vocal Version)" by Sia

I cried my first tear in the longest time today. I think lock-down may soon be over. I don't think my heart can hold it in anymore. I need to feel this, regardless.

It's nice to have some emotion back. The ice has finally melted, but it's still rather cold. Does she know that I'm still here, waiting for her? Does she realize that I'm rooting for her, hoping that she'll find her way, regardless if it leads to me or not? Does anyone really understand?

The child within me cries out, "I'm in here!" I've ignored it's cries for too long, becoming cynical to my own beliefs. A temporary lack of judgment is what I'll call it, knowing damn well what it really was.

It's time for this tin man to put himself back together and find his heart once again. Although it aches, it holds what is dearest to me, the innocence that comes with believing, and having hope in true love. It may sound a little Disney, but that's how I roll.

So I open my chest and put it back in, back where it belongs. And as the lock-down ends my heart starts to tick again, tick-tocking away the time once again. So I pick up my axe and travel down that road, with two paths in front of me.

While it's not my battle it kind of is at the same time. Which road will I choose? Will time make this decision any easier? I need to decide, do I listen to reason, or do I listen to my heart?

And the child screams out,

"I'm in here!
Can anybody see me?
Can anybody help?"

Confession #006

I put ice in my soup
when it's too hot.

Wednesday, January 12, 2011

My Secret Public Journal, Entry #007: Not Enough

So, at the suggestion of a friend/classmate I decided to make these journal-esk writings that don't sum up into a central theme laced with ambiguity and a cheesy song playing in the background. Instead I'll just free-write about whatever strikes me...complete with a little lacing of ambiguity...and a cheesy song playing in the background. I call it My Secret Public Journal.

Love & Waffles,
Ant

ps: don't sue me Mike Birbiglia



"Not Enough" by Our Lady Peace

It's been a weird few days. I'm not used to this whole letting out your emotions thing. I spent the first two days crying my eyes out, as if someone had died. I still find it ironic and hard to understand that tears dry out contact lenses. But to feel nothing after letting it all out, well that's something I can't seem to understand even more.

I went through the emotions so rapidly in my mind. I looked for someone to blame, but RED & BLUE were conveniently missing. All that was left was me. It's weird to look back on it now knowing what I know now. It's like every missing piece has been put into place filling up the gaps, yet by doing so they have unlocked many more unanswered questions.

Part of me doesn't understand, if she knew we wouldn't work out why didn't she tell me? Maybe she had faith that I'd be enough. Enough to break through, enough to make her love me, enough for me to love her, enough to prove that nothing's bigger than love. I guess now there's nothing left to prove.

All I Can really remember that day was the overwhelming feeling of not being enough. That somehow I had failed her. It's like what I was offering wasn't enough. Love wasn't enough. I can't understand that, and perhaps I never will. I guess I'm too much of a hopeless romantic to ever give in to that notion. I guess realistically we all need food, water, money, shelter, etc. But I always believed that love could conquer all (in a happiness kind of way). I guess I was wrong.

I don't really know the point in all of this. I guess I'm just trying to make sense out of such a confusing situation. Maybe one day it'll hit me, but for the sake of writing something down, and trying to get any emotion out of me whatsoever, I think I'm starting to slowly lose my faith that nothing is bigger than love.

I know somewhere the child inside me is screaming, but I can't hear it. I think my heart has shutdown, locked up, trying to save itself from breaking. I want love to save this so bad, but can it? This isn't Hollywood; this is no perfect movie love story. But will I, can I get my happy ending? Will it, will I, be enough?

Confession #005

I have a pretty awesome hoodie collection.
;D

Tuesday, January 11, 2011

no. 058 [4, 3, 2, 1...]

"Cologne" by Ben Folds

Time is an odd concept. It's always moving, always changing, always going. I thought a while back that time could be a good thing, now I'm starting to rethink that. I thought that giving myself some time to deal with everything would be for the best. As it turns out I think that time has made me very apathetic.

Maybe I'm drained, or maybe I'm bottling it all up. I'm not really sure. Is it a survival mechanism, or have I just grown this weary? It's not like I'm doing this by choice. I'm actually a bit frustrated that I don't feel anything. How could I let it get to this point?

Maybe this is letting go. Or maybe this whole thing hasn't hit me yet. Has trying to move on and be happy created some sort of adverse effect? I know I want to feel something, but I'm not quite sure what. Do I really want to spend another two and a half days mourning the death of something that never really was? I know I can't be angry about it, but to feel nothing makes me want to feel some sort of anger.

But here it is. No matter how hard I try, nothing comes of it. Perhaps my tears have run dry. Perhaps it hasn't even begun to hit me yet. Perhaps I've already learned to let go, and I just didn't see it. The only thing I really know is that I can't waste anymore time. If this is meant to work it will, when the time is right, and only when we, both of us, are ready.

I can only hope that those feelings return someday, when I'm ready for them, if ever. I know, and you know where I stand on this issue, but it's not my battle. I have my own demons to overcome. And I will do so, in time.

It all comes down to time. 4, 3, 2, 1. As time dwindles down I begin to question, is this really the end, or just the beginning? How can I feel something one day to just being completely apathetic the next?

Photobucket

I am growing tired of this empty shell where love once existed, in it's truest form. Am I really letting go? Tell me to stay and I will. Just don't let me drift off into this abyss without giving it one more shot, if it's really what you want. Otherwise I'm afraid I'll let go, but only if you let go. My hand is out there, can you see it? Will you hold on? Only time will tell.

4, 3, 2, 1...

Transgression


beat the drum snares

wake up the town
new confessions
all written down
can i force myself into this?
opening my heart and spilling my guts
tonight will be for revelations
no if, ands, or buts

4, 3, 2, 1
when they say you're not that strong
but this is a fight i refuse to lose
can anybody help?
something reminds you, you wish you had stayed
why can't she just runaway?

new blogs
soon...

Confession #004


The scene in Dumbo where he goes to visit his mom in her cage
and the last episode of RFR
always seem to make me cry.

And I don't care who knows.

Monday, January 10, 2011

Confession #003


I have Ashlee Simpson's
"Outta My Head (Ay Ya Ya)"
on my iPod...
and I've actually kinda rocked out
to it in my truck...and liked it.

:p

Sunday, January 9, 2011

Confession #002


The first two episodes of RFR still give me goosebumps.
:)

Saturday, January 8, 2011

Confession #001

I can't go a full day
without music.

Thursday, January 6, 2011

Before Cologne...

"Before Cologne" by Ben Folds


As Buddha once said,
“You yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection.”






"Fuck, this hurts so much."

"I know it hurts. That's life. If nothing else, It's life. It's real, and sometimes it fuckin' hurts, but it's sort of all we have."

My Secret Public Journal, Entry #006: Last Song For Now

So, at the suggestion of a friend/classmate I decided to make these journal-esk writings that don't sum up into a central theme laced with ambiguity and a cheesy song playing in the background. Instead I'll just free-write about whatever strikes me...complete with a little lacing of ambiguity...and a cheesy song playing in the background. I call it My Secret Public Journal.

Love & Waffles,
Ant

ps: don't sue me Mike Birbiglia


"Last Song For Now" by Fair And Kind

I woke up this morning, laying on my tear-soaked pillows, wrapped in blankets. I apathetically turned over and stared at my phone for a bit. I laid there watching the minutes change, knowing that I should get out of bed, but lacking the motivation to do so. Laying there I heard the same song over and over in my head, echoing the words "don't panic". Maybe watching Garden State last night wasn't such a great idea. I wanted so bad to check my messages, to make sure that last night never happened. But when I finally built up enough nerve to check, it was confirmed. I don't think I was ever really prepared for this, but then again, how could I?

we agree to listen
we agree to share
strange to speak in terms
we know it's there
just buried for the moment
still breathing beneath our cares
oh we visit when we can


I guess in a way I wanted it to be on my own terms, and not the way that it went down. It's so weird, because part of me almost saw this coming. I guess I just didn't want to believe that there would ever be a definite end to all of this. And now I can't believe that I said that this is the end.

I don't know. It's hard to formulate into words. The whole idea of us never being able to be, how perfect this all is, in the worst possible way. It's too much like a movie, except, where is our happy ending? I guess life doesn't work that way.

i know it's not been easy
peering through these cracks
at what seemed to come effortlessly
and it was almost everything
i'm sorry i forgot
to keep perspective
you know i do it a lot


So a few moments after I sounded off like a broken record, and we said our goodbyes (for now), I find myself sitting on my best friend's bed playing with the iPad he got for Christmas. At his suggestion I tried the Pandora app, to try to get my mind off of things. I typed in Reverie Sound Revue, and just then, in a picture perfect moment the song that you are currently listening to (if indeed you pressed play) pops up and makes me cry.

i watch you go
again we are alone
we say it's just for now


I'm too stubborn to let go, even though I know that I should. Is it possible to be that much in love with somebody that you just can't walk away? It's too much like a script; too Romeo & Juliet. We love each other, but we just can't be. It hurts; it's right, yet so wrong. A little past twilight is what we are, so close yet so far. Yet part of me won't let go of hope. It's not that I don't want to as much as it is that I can't. It's the only thing that I have, that I truly own, that I have left. And I'm not ready to give it up...maybe not just yet, or maybe not at all. I can't say for sure just yet.

well days are getting darker
i'm lightening my heart
let me give forever
this is just a start


How can a love like ours be so wrong? I used to be a firm believer that nothing's bigger than love, but that faith is starting to dwindle. Should love really be this hard?

i want to glow
for you and you alone
is that enough for now?


I'd hate to stand here and cry, yet I wear a name tag that reads 'OVER-DRAMATIC'. I can't sit and pretend that all is fine, or will be fine, when the only thing I feel is the slow cracking of my heart breaking. Perhaps everything I thought about love is wrong...

So here I stand, a little past twilight, alone, yet not at all, holding on against everything logical, holding onto the hope that love will somehow, some way prevail, almost knowing damn well that it's nearly impossible, yet still, I hope. Am I too optimistic for my own good, or will my hanging on be worth it?

You can't change how you feel as much as you can't change your personality. Maybe as time passes we'll see the truth in all of this. But for now I have too many questions, and not enough answers. Hopefully I'll start to figure them out for myself. Is nothing really bigger than love? Is love or staying true to yourself more important? And will this story ever be told? While right now it seems impossible I will stand with the old adage never say never...so I guess this is it. While the goodbyes have been said, I can't let go, I will sit, wait, and wish, but I can't let it hold me back from my destiny. So I guess this is the last song, for now.

i want to glow
for you and you alone
is that enough for now?